Practical Orgasm Tips For Men

Are you having difficulty making your girlfriend, wife or lover climax? Does she take longer to orgasm than previous partner’s have? Is your sexual self-esteem starting to suffer? Do you worry that the problem is YOU, rather than with her? Or, like millions of other men, are you simply confused and unsure whether there even IS a problem at all?

In this article we are going to take a quick and easy look at some of the challenges many men face when it comes to pleasing their partners in bed.

We’re going to take a quick look at some of the myths and misinformation regarding the female orgasm, and then we’re going to give you 3 simple tips you can immediately use to ensure that she enjoys sex as much as you do, going forward.

Curious to know more? Continue reading as we take a closer look below!

Some common myths about women, and our ability to climax.

First, it’s 2016. She DOES enjoy sex as much as you do. And if your girl is like 98% of us, she can climax MORE than once as well. There is much misleading information out there regarding a woman’s appetite for sex, and many articles claim that a significant percentage of women aren’t able to climax at all. This is 100% untrue.

Fact: In most surveys you can find anywhere online (in popular culture, and more formal studies alike) more than 9 out of 10 women claim to be able to orgasm from self gratification, or manual stimulation, at least once per session.

The key? Patience! Our bodies are simply “wired” differently than yours, and our sexual response cycle, can take 3 times as long as a man’s. It takes the average woman about 10 minutes to go from “zero” to climax, sometimes longer, and depending on the circumstances and the type of sex, even double that can be normal.

With that in mind? Here are 3 simple tips for men who want to be heroic in bed!

1 – Foreplay is the Secret to Her Orgasm

The longer you can stimulate her either manually or orally, the longer and stronger her orgasms become.

2 – Sexual Stamina is SUPER Important as well.

As above, if you are finishing too fast, and NOT spending time focused on her needs before intercourse, she is NOT going to be able to climax often, or ever at all. Something I’ve learned from private conversations with hundreds of women over the years? This is not only going to be a problem in the bedroom, but it will “spill” over in other areas of your life, and relationship as well.

3- Position is important, too!

Every “body” is different, and the way yours comes together with your partner can be crucial when it comes to her ability to enjoy sex, and climax as well. Something they don’t teach men in health class? Every woman has slightly different sexually sensitive spots.

Some women can only be stimulated deeply in the vagina, where others can climax from clitoral stimulation alone. Finding out HER “sweet” spot and then making sure you can reach it during intercourse, is critical if you want to keep her happy in bed, and beyond!